Seventeen magazine recently released a study revealing the consequences of Facebook on modern dating. The magazine examines the huge role Facebook plays in teenage love life.
According to the study of 10,000 guys and girls between the ages of 16 to 21, Facebook helps teens to make a love connection.
The study concludes that:
“Within one week of meeting a new person, 79 percent of people click ‘friend,’ and after adding a new friend; 60 percent of people stalk their crush’s profile once a day (40 percent check-in on their would-be soul mate several times a day). Moreover, contrary to beliefs that social networking is eroding interpersonal communication, 72 percent of those surveyed said that talking to someone online brings you closer to them IRL.”
Other studies have examined the role of Facebook in break-ups. Samuel Axon from Mashable wrote a feature concluding that Facebook has changed dating for the worse. Twenty-one percent of respondents in a study admitted they would break up with someone by changing their statuses on Facebook.
Seventeen’s study also examined this element. The study reported that 10 percent of people have been dumped over Facebook. After a break up, 27 percent of people change their Facebook connection to their ex (hiding them on the News Feed, unfriending or blocking them). However, 73 percent keep their exes on their friends list.
The study also revealed that girls are more likely to use Facebook as a dating tool than guys. Forty-three percent of girls said they would decide not to date someone based on a Facebook profile compared to 33 percent of guys. Guys are also more willing to keep their relationship statuses private, 17 percent don’t share their status compared with 12 percent of girls. For girls, a status change represents something more. Fifty percent of girls “get a kick out of the status change,” while 24 percent of guys find it unnecessary.
Without a doubt, Facebook has changed the dating scene for teenagers. Facebook allows its users to pick from the following list regarding their relationship status: “single,” “in a relationship,” “engaged,” “married,” “it’s complicated,” “in an open relationship,” “widowed,” “separated” or “divorced.” You can also publicly announce if you are looking for a relationship, dating, networking or friendship on your page. Facebook puts everyone’s business out in cyberspace. Maybe it’s good because it makes it harder to cheat. Maybe it’s bad because it encourages over analyzing and jealously. And, when you’re dumped, it’s now public news.
Regardless, Facebook has changed the ways in which relationships begin and end. It has become a central part of the modern-day love story.
Has Facebook changed your love life? For the better or worse?